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Journal: Science Olympiad

One of my biggest fears right now is the lack of time with my daughters. Being a three-quarter to full time student and working 40 plus hours a week does not leave me much time with my girls. I really need to make sure I take every opportunity to spend time with all four.

A couple of months ago Jessica approached me with a request.

“Dad, I have been selected to take part in the Science Olympiad competition this year. Will you be a coach?”

When my [almost] thirteen-year-old daughter asks me to do an activity with her, I better jump at it. It is more common at this age for our kids to want less time around their annoying parents, not more.

I was happy to say yes. I assumed that I would be paired up with the science teacher or some other adult with experience in this thing. It turns out, this is not the case. I am quite alone in this thing.

To make it even more interesting I was given the “Keep The Heat” event. In this event our team will build a box designed to hold a 250ml beaker of warm water. This experiment consists of measuring the heat loss over a specific period of time. The goal is to build a container that will ‘keep the heat’ for as long as possible.

It was completely perfect that we were given this science project to perform. Since my dad owns a cabinet shop I got on the phone with him right away, and recruited his services for the construction of our device. He was more than excited to help us out.

It took two evenings to build the box. Both evenings my dad brought cookies and juice for snacks. We fired up the shop full of tools and built quite the capable box.

Here is a picture of the girls stuffing it with sawdust for insulation.

Here is grandpa and the girls.

Of course, being girls, they had to paint the box.

Next, we will be putting together a binder full of information on Thermodynamics, something I do not understand at all!

I have no idea how well we will do at the competition. Regardless of how we do, we are making some great memories together, and I am thankful that she even wants to have me around her school friends and teachers.

Jessica is a great kid and I am very grateful for the opportunity to be her dad.

Here’s your compass

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My parents worked pretty hard to raise my sister and me well. They did not have the best examples to follow. When they were older, and started raising a family of their own, they did the best they could.

With the exception of the ban on ‘rock music’, I do not have any problems with any of their decisions. Hey, I missed out on the greatest era in music, the eighties!

It is okay dad, I am not too bitter! (wink wink)

There is one thing my parents taught me that I have followed to this very day. Julie and I are trying our hardest to instill this one value into the lives of our children as well.

Just tell the truth!

If I really wanted to find out the depth at which my parents could discipline, all I had to do was tell a lie. There was absolutely no room for it in our home. My mom’s favorite scripture out of the bible on the subject, while I was growing up, was the following:

all liars, their part will be in the lake that burns with fire and brimstone

No, I do not sit around in fear that if I tell a lie I will burn in hell forever. My mom was trying to make a point, though. Mom and dad both knew that pain and misery follow liars around and the consequences of such behavior spread to those around us. The greatest violations man has thrust upon other men were covered in lies and deception. Both slavery and the Holocaust were founded upon the lie that Jews and African Americans were not 100% people.

Trust is the currency of all relationships. – Andy Stanley

I want my girls to understand; without honesty successful relationships cannot exist. When they get older and start to date I want them to expect honesty. If they have lived their whole lives in an environment filled with the truth then they will be instantly turned off by any relationship with lying in it.

Because of our desire to see our daughters be in healthy relationships we hold them to very high standards. They have lost privileges for an entire year as the consequence for dishonesty.

Even if they tell the truth just to avoid the long horrible conversation that may result if we find out they lied I am happy.

Eventually truth will find its way into the light. I want my kids to understand that the end results are always better if we shine the light of truth on ourselves rather than hoping someone else does not.

“I’m not upset that you lied to me, I’m upset that from now on I can’t believe you.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche

Journal: I am creation

I started my second semester last week. I am taking Human Lifespan Development (HLD) and Anatomy and Physiology (A&P). Both classes are three and a half hours long. A&P is Tuesday and Thursday and HLD is just on Mondays. I am so glad that I decided to take less hours this semester. I actually have two days each week with no classes and will not have to work every single weekend this semester like I did last semester. I cannot believe how much easier this feels already.

I am glad that I took so many hours last semester. I pushed a lot of stuff off my plate, and I should be able to enter the nursing program of my choice by spring of 2013. I am perfectly fine with that plan.

I could feel the anxiety in the room during our first A&P class. For many students this is the first class that really feels like healthcare. We will be studying the human body, and everyone is curious what kind of instructor we are getting.

About three quarters of the way into class he was explaining to us how the ‘anatomical position’ is described. Out of the blue he barked:

“I am creation, not evolution! After taking this class I do not see how in the world you can be an evolutionist. I have never purchased a car that got better over time. Things do not get better over time. Things do not go from disorder to order with the passage of time. Show me an example of that anywhere!”

A few days later we were in the middle of a class break during my HLD class, and I was walking by another A&P class. When I looked through a window into the room an evolution presentation caught my eye. At the bottom of the slide on the screen there was a bullet point that stated, “Species evolve, but organisms do not”. I found this statement to be in direct contrast to the idea of evolution. I asked myself, “How does evolution know the difference? How in the world can you have entire species evolve but individual organisms not evolve?” Even at the cellular level evolution is contradicted. The only way a cell can divide successfully is if it makes an exact replica of itself. If there is even the slightest difference the new cell will die. How can you possibly have evolutionary change if every cell has to be identical right down to the very DNA structure for successful replication?

Humans like to make simple things complex, and that is why evolution continues to be taught so widely. Creation is just too simple. It takes five minutes to explain creation and five hundred hours to explain evolution.

With creation comes purpose. Because I was intentionally formed then it stands to reason that I also have a specific purpose. I like the idea of that. I like knowing that my life has meaning.

I will proudly proclaim, as my instructor did: “I am creation, not evolution!”

4 Tips for reader friendly content

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This site took a major traffic hit when I converted from 100% business to more motivation and spiritual content.

Before you get confused and think I had all kinds of traffic relax a little. I was only at about 2,000 visitors a month. When I dumped the business coaching idea, and changed to what I am now, my traffic was cut in half. Just this month I have started seeing the same numbers as before (plus a little more). It has taken me seven months to recover the traffic.

I have doubled my traffic in the last seven months and I believe reader friendly content has been key. I try to use titles that encourage readers to check out my content. I try to think of something creative that, at first glance, will give some insight into the content being shared. I use “Journal” and “Essay” in titles to let Twitter and Facebook followers know the type of content being shared. For the most part I believe my content is easy and quick to consume and I try to build everything here, at this web site, with the reader in mind.

Here are some tips for creating reader friendly content.

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Break even does not scale

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Tablets are the popular thing right now. Apple sells the iPad at a $499.00 starting point and Amazon is selling the Kindle Fire at a $199.00 starting point.

I read this nice article this week that points out the difference in business practices between Apple and Amazon.

According to the article:

Apple focuses on profitability for its hardware products with content providing a supporting role at much smaller margins, while Amazon is willing to sell hardware essentially at cost in order to support profitability in its massive shopping and content offerings.

There is a lesson to be learned in the battle between Amazon and Apple. While Amazon is apparently caving to the pressure to treat the Kindle products like a loss leader to grow customer base, Apple continues the time honored practice of making a reasonable profit on their hardware. Value is added by a community that creates extremely cost effective add-on’s.

Small business owners would be wise to follow Apple’s example and not Amazon’s.

Free and break even do not scale in the world of business. Amazon will probably get by with this because of their customer base, but as small business owners we cannot get caught in the tap of following Amazon’s example. All we will do is create downward momentum for our companies. As we drop our prices in an attempt to be more competitive (or carve out our own niche) we will only devalue our products and services, and our perceived value will go with it.

Amazon will suffer greatly if their customers purchase Kindle products but only use it for free content. With Apple’s approach they stay profitable regardless of the the way customers use the iPad.

Let’s keep the profitability of our businesses in our own hands, not the hands of our customers.

Journal: Hidden Benefits

A couple of weeks ago I updated my Current Hard Work page and added the goal to have prayer and bible reading time each morning.

I have never been an early morning person. My plan all along was to get up around 6:15 or so for my quiet time. I have done that each morning since my journal from January 9th.

Previously I would get up around 7:00 and have just enough time to get dressed, and have a cup of coffee before leaving at 7:20am to drop the older girls off at school then head to work.

With this earlier schedule I have been given quite the surprise. My two youngest girls, who normally do not get up till around 7:30 each morning, are coming out of their room around 7:00 to sit with me in the living room while I wait for the time to leave. Julie even pointed out to me that they are actually setting their alarm for 7:00 so we can hang out for a few minutes.

These events have left me to consider a few things.

1. Not all the benefits of spiritual activities are spiritual in nature.
Certainly it is spiritually healthy to start the day with prayer and reading. It is not just about getting prayers answered or growing in my understanding of the bible. It is about making myself available for what God wants to do. What if God wants me to be up early so I can have more time in the mornings with my family?

2. My kids are watching me.
Like many parents out there I am constantly trying to teach my kids how to be responsible people. Sometimes I get weary trying to get a particular point to stick in their heads. I really did not expect the two youngest girls to notice my new plan. I certainly made no announcements to the rest of the family. Still, they noticed and have adjusted their own schedule to have time with me in the mornings.

3. I am not the only one who benefits.
My spiritual obedience is not just about me and my needs. There is a bigger picture that may not be revealed until after I obey.

This new practice I am following has reminded me of something. My obedience is not always just for my benefit. There are others in my sphere of influence that need me to be more on task with my obedience to God’s word. The challenge is being willing to try.

Time Machine

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I have been fascinated with time travel for a long time. Since I am a sci-fi fan I get plenty of entertainment content surrounding the subject. For the most part every episode of my favorite shows use time travel to give me a happy ending. Our hero goes back and saves someone or rights some kind of wrong. He or she gets to return back to their correct time and everything is better.

Well hurrah for them!

The rest of us have to live our lives looking back on bad decisions or experiences and wish we could go back and change them. My list is just as long as anyone else’s. Maybe I do not have some of the ugly things in my past many people do such as untimely death of family members, but I would like to think that kind of thing is relative anyway. My worst experience may not be as bad as another person’s worst experience but it is still MY worst experience.

I am such an emotional person that I would run back in time just minutes after a decision and change it. I would ultimately find myself in an endless loop of decision making, and changing, trying to find that perfect combination for a life that will make me happy.

I would abandon the need for a mentor. I can just try every single possible scenario and choose which result I like the most. I would become the ultimate manipulator leveraging my powers for my own welfare. My wife, children, friends and neighbors would become slaves to my every whim. I would become lazy and fat(er) since I would be able to win the lottery any time I ran out of money.

With the ability to turn back time and fix my past mistakes I will guarantee myself one thing. I will leave this earth as dumb as I entered it, and no one would be better off for my existence. I would live an uneventful, perfect and completely boring life.

Journal: The future is now

I understand my title for this entry is a little cliche. I cannot think of a title that is more fitting.

In April of last year (2011) I wrote a post titled: “Learn to foretell the future“. In that post I told the story of how our church leaders are showing us the direction our church is headed by their choice for youth leader and associate pastor.

Yesterday our church held a vote on whether or not we should appoint Todd Blansit to co-pastor which essentially set him up to be the future lead pastor of our church.

Let me share with you a couple of reasons why the future of New Life excites me.

1. Actively looking to fill needs in the community
An area I find most frustrating in ‘old school’ thinking is this idea that anyone with a problem needs to just pull up their boot straps and fix their own lives. Not everyone can do this on their own. It is the responsibility of the church (I am the church because I go to one) to help those in need. Todd and Tiffany are always looking for ways New Life can be a part of the solution.

2. Operating out of a plan
Todd and Tiffany are very organized thinkers and planners. A teen mom can show up at 5pm any Wednesday of the year and receive help. Consistency is key in any organization and everything these two people touch is orderly.

3. The truth is not watered down
In an age where many churches are changing the message based on popular opinion, Todd’s teaching holds strong to biblical truth.

4. A passion to reach the lost
Too many churches just focus on the people who walk in the doors. The world does not need any more churches designed and built for church people. A church body should be on the lookout for the hurting and lost and we should be taking the message and hope and healing out to where the people who need it the most live. I will gladly give my money towards ideas that will help reach people outside of our building.

I cannot wait to see what the next few years hold for New Life and I am excited to be a part of something amazing in my own community.

The land of the living

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My two favorite bible characters are Kind David and Joseph.

One thing about David that I can relate to is his massive mood swings. I do not show my mood swings on the outside. I tend to hold them in. I am very thankful that David did not do the same thing. He laid it all out in the Psalms for us.

I would have despaired unless I had believed that I would see the goodness of the LORD in the land of the living. (Psalm 27:13 NASB)

David knew all about the highs and lows of life. You can probably say that out of all the bible characters he experienced the highest highs, and the lowest lows.

In his early years, before becoming king, David spent some time running for his life. This was after killing Goliath and basically saving the entire Israelite army from the Philistines. After becoming king David killed Uriah and stole his wife then lost his first born son in infancy.

In reading this verse I am reminded that David believed God for good things both in heaven and on earth. Sometimes I think Christians can get so caught up in how great heaven is going to be that we forget that God has promised us good things here on earth as well.

Andy Andrews comments on life: “We are either going into a crisis, in a crisis or coming out of a crisis!”

Both of these men know that in life we will experience many highs and unfortunately many lows. It is our faith that we will see God’s goodness while here on earth that can sustain our hope.

The challenge is recognizing God’s goodness when we see it.

Be chosen wise

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This last Monday I restarted my daily practice of prayer and bible reading. My favorite verse from the morning has really been on my mind.

Proverbs 9:8
Do not correct a scoffer, lest he hate you; Rebuke a wise man, and he will love you.

At first glance this verse is telling me to be careful of whom I try to rebuke (or correct). If I chose a scoffer I will become hated by this person. If I choose a wise man I will have a friend and someone who loves me. Apparently, I should choose wisely.

I came to the realization that I needed to take this verse deeper and ask myself: “Which person am I?”

How do I respond to rebuke? Am I defensive? Do I respond in such a way that tells others to write me off as someone whom cannot be corrected? Imagine the trouble I could get myself into if I was not correctable.

On the other hand, what If I respond to correction in love? Can I step back from myself and evaluate my behaviors and actions openly? Am I willing to change based on the correction of other Godly men and women? This verse says that someone whom responds in love to correction is wise.

This verse is not asking me to find a wise person to correct.

This verse is asking me if I am found wise enough, by others, to be correctable.

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